Kathiey's World

Sometimes, life’s darkest moments make it hard to even imagine a way out. I wrote this poem during one of those times—a reminder that even when darkness feels all-encompassing, the light of God’s love can still shine through.       God’s Light Cuts Through Our Darkness   “Light can be seen even in the darkness.   The light from the stars on a very dark night.   The light from a lighthouse in the midnight hours. The light from a candle in a darkened room. The light from a fireplace on a cold winter evening. And, the light of God’s love cutting through our darkness.” KathieyV   I know many of us have faced moments when we felt trapped in complete darkness. The depth of that darkness can be so overwhelming that the idea of finding a light often doesn’t even cross our minds. It can feel like we’re surrounded by darkness with no way to escape. There are countless forms this darkness can take—illness, loss, divorce, violence, injustice, poverty, and many mor...

  Pineapple Upside-Down Cake: A Blast From the Past Worth Every Bite Some recipes do more than satisfy your sweet tooth. They take you straight back to your childhood kitchen. That is exactly what happened when I decided to make a Pineapple Upside-Down Cake. The moment it came out of the oven I was transported right back to my mom's kitchen, watching her pull one of these beauties out and flip it over to reveal that gorgeous, glossy pineapple topping. It was one of my favorite things she made, and now I remember why. A Little History Worth Knowing This cake has a surprisingly rich history. Long before it became an American classic, cooks in medieval Europe were already baking inverted skillet cakes, placing apples, plums, or cherries on the bottom of a cast-iron pan with butter and sugar, pouring batter on top, and flipping the whole thing over after baking to reveal a caramelized fruit topping. Pineapple itself was considered such a luxury fruit for centuries after Christopher Col...

  Phantasma by Kaylie Smith: A Review and How I Brought It Into My World Rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars I picked up Phantasma by Kaylie Smith with high hopes. It had all the ingredients I love: an atmospheric setting in New Orleans, a young woman with inherited necromancy magic, a mysterious haunted mansion, and a forbidden romance with an otherworldly stranger. For the first two thirds of the book I was completely pulled in. The story follows Ophelia, the eldest Grimm daughter, who enters a deadly competition called Phantasma to save her younger sister. Inside she strikes a bargain with the enigmatic Blackwell, a charming and mysterious Phantom, and what follows is a dark fantasy world filled with monsters, trials, and a slow burn romance that had me turning pages. The atmosphere is where this book truly shines. Kaylie Smith creates a world that feels gothic, lush, and cinematic.  However I have to be honest. Around the two thirds mark the story started to feel repetitive for me...

I recently watched the movie The Highwaymen , a gripping story about two lawmen tracking down Bonnie and Clyde. One line really caught my attention—it mentioned “one turn on the trail.” To me, this powerful phrase means that a single decision or change in direction can completely alter the course of our lives. The turns and decisions we make can be deliberate, spontaneous, or sometimes taken out of necessity. Sometimes, life forces a turn on us—like my own experience with an unwanted divorce. Other times, we consciously choose to change direction and take a new path. Every choice we make carries consequences—sometimes positive, sometimes challenging—and the impact ripples not only through our own lives but also affects those around us. Sometimes life forces us to take a turn we never wanted, a sudden illness, job loss, the death of a loved one, or a divorce, to name a few examples. While we may not have control over these changes, we do have the power to accept them and le...

 Some restaurants are just a meal. And then there are the ones that become a memory. Nomad in Hillsborough, NC is the second kind. I took my daughter out for her birthday dinner and from the moment we walked in I knew we had chosen the right place. The Atmosphere- Nomad is housed in a refurbished older building and it wears its history beautifully. Exposed brick walls, a warm rustic interior, and a cozy charm that wraps around you the moment you step inside. The space is intimate without feeling cramped, and the atmosphere strikes that perfect balance between special occasion and completely comfortable. It felt like exactly the kind of place you want to be on a birthday. We chose to sit at the bar, which turned out to be a wonderful decision. The Service- Our bartender was an absolute joy. Friendly, knowledgeable, and genuinely attentive without ever hovering or making us feel rushed. He paid attention to us in all the right ways, making sure we felt welcomed and taken care of thro...

  Need Stress Relief? Try Spending Time Near the Water Let’s continue on with our series on stress relief and self-care. Today, let’s explore one of nature’s most powerful stress relievers — something that has been right in front of us all along. Whether it’s the ocean, a lake, or a gently flowing river, being near water has a way of making everything feel a little more manageable. Have you ever noticed how your shoulders seem to drop the moment you step near the water? There’s a reason for that, and it turns out science backs it up beautifully. What Is “Blue Space” and Why Does It Matter? Researchers have coined the term blue space to describe any environment that features a body of water — oceans, lakes, rivers, canals, and even urban fountains. And just like green space (parks, forests, and gardens), blue space has been shown to have real, measurable benefits for our mental health and well-being. According to blue space research published across multiple studies, spending just...