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When the Heat Index Hits 100: A Practical Guide to Staying Safe This Summer in NC

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  When the Heat Index Hits 100: A Practical Guide to Staying Safe This Summer in NC Y’all, it is   hot . And I am not talking about a regular North Carolina summer kind of hot. I am talking triple digits, humidity so thick you feel like you are walking through warm soup, and a heat index that WRAL meteorologists are warning could push close to 110 degrees over the coming days. Tomorrow, my daughter and I are taking the grandkids to a museum with both outdoor and indoor activities. And honestly? I almost rescheduled. But then I thought, no. Life does not stop because of a heat wave. We just have to be smart about it. So here is everything I have learned about staying safe when the temps go extreme. I hope it helps you and yours too. Plan Your Day Around the Heat, Not the Other Way Around This one is simple but powerful. If you are going somewhere with both outdoor and indoor options, do the outdoor stuff first thing in the morning, then move inside when the heat peaks between 1...

Dating Series: Meeting Someone for the First Time—The Perfect Coffee Date

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  Dating has evolved a lot over the years. Back when I was a teen, meeting someone often meant crossing paths at school or church, with a simple invitation to go out—easy and straightforward. Today, while some connections still happen face-to-face, many people are navigating the world of dating sites and apps. For those of us stepping back into the dating scene after decades of marriage, it can feel overwhelming and confusing. Questions like “Which dating site is right for me?” and “How do I stay safe?” are just the beginning. I’ve decided to dive into the world of dating and gather advice from those experienced with online dating to offer helpful tips. In my research, I’ve come across many articles recommending thoughtful first date ideas for meeting someone new. One of the most popular suggestions? A coffee date. So, let’s explore what makes the perfect coffee date and why it’s such a great way to connect. There are plenty of ideas out there for a first date when connecting throu...

Books, Food, Beverages and More - Bringing My Books to Life

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Have you ever finished a book and thought, “I wish I could actually  live   inside this story for a little while”? Same. That is exactly why “Books, Beverages and More” was born. This is the place where pages meet real life, where a recipe simmering in chapter three becomes something I am actually making in my kitchen, where a destination a character longs for becomes a trip worth planning, where the world inside the book spills right out into mine. Whether it is a novel that wrecked me, a classic I finally got around to, or a film adaptation I cannot stop thinking about, I find a way to bring it home. Pull up a chair. Pour yourself something good. Let’s bring these stories to life together. Now, I absolutely loved “The Southern Book Club’s Guide to Slaying Vampires.” Grady Hendrix managed to do something I did not think was possible: make me laugh out loud and then immediately look over my shoulder. Set in 1990s Mt. Pleasant, South Carolina, this book is essentially “Steel Ma...

Travel North Carolina: The Magic of the Vollis Simpson Whirligig Park in Wilson NC

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I finally made the drive to the Vollis Simpson Whirligig Park in Historic Downtown Wilson, North Carolina. I had first heard about this place several years ago and it had been on my list ever since. Tucked into the heart of Wilson, this one-of-a-kind park is home to the whimsical, wind-powered sculptures created by folk artist Vollis Simpson. Simpson never called himself an artist, but the New York Times did. When he passed away in 2013, the Times described him as “a visionary artist of the junkyard who made metal scraps into magnificent things that twirled and jangled and clattered.” His creations were built almost entirely from recycled and salvaged materials, and in 2013 they were named North Carolina’s official folk art. The park itself was born out of a true community effort, shaped by hundreds of Wilson citizens including artists, neighborhood associations, youth groups, and local business leaders. It has since been recognized as the Best Sculpture Park in the USA by USA Today’s ...

Telling Your Story Through Journal Prompts: What Celebrity Would You Take to Lunch?

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Welcome back to our monthly journal prompt series, Telling Your Story Through Journal Prompts. This series exists because your story matters. Once we are gone, there is no one left to tell it, and while the people who love us are busy living their own lives, our memories, opinions, and experiences deserve to be captured somewhere. That is exactly what this series is for. This month's prompt is a fun one. No heavy lifting, no digging into the hard stuff. Just a lighthearted question designed to reveal a little bit about who you are and what you value in the people around you. So grab your journal or open a blank document, and let's get into it. This Month's Prompt If you could go to lunch with any celebrity, who would it be, and why would you choose that person? My Answer I will be honest with you. There are not many celebrities I would care to share a meal with. I do not follow the tabloids. I do not keep up with who is dating whom or which star just posted something contro...

North Carolina Facts: Yes, There Are Pelicans in North Carolina!

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I have always loved pelicans. As a child, my family would make trips down to Florida, and I would spend the whole drive with my face practically pressed against the car window searching for two things: palm trees and pelicans. The moment I spotted either one, I was absolutely thrilled. So imagine my delight when I discovered that you don't have to travel all the way to Florida to see these magnificent birds! Are there pelicans in North Carolina?? Are there pelicans in North Carolina? Yes! And a couple of years ago, I had the most wonderful experience photographing them right on the coast at Harkers Island, NC. The images I captured of these beautiful birds are some of my favorites, and I am so excited to share that I am heading back in just a couple of weeks. I am hoping to come home with even more stunning photos of these amazing creatures. The Two Types of Pelicans You Can Find in North Carolina According to NC Audubon, North Carolina is home to two species of pelicans, and each ...